Kevin and I went to our childbirth class on Saturday. It was a day-long crash course on everything from the stages of pregnancy to taking care of your new baby. It started at 8:00 a.m., and as a plan to get our attention (which worked), the nurse teaching the class showed us a video of labor and delivery. Okay, so we watch the Discovery channel, and we thought we'd seen it all, but oh no, this video was of a whole 'nother caliber! We saw EVERYTHING.... from angles and points of views that we have never before observed. With a certain measure of shock and awe, we watched with unabated attention at this crazy process called Childbirth. Isn't God amazing in His creation? Isn't this a crazy thing to witness - a little human being coming out of a grown human being? Wow.
Amid the shock, sweet Kevin was glancing back and forth from the TV to me, patting my knee in a reassuring way. His worried glances said, "Everything is going to be okay, Sweetie..." while his mind was racing with, "My poor little wifey is going to have to do this!" After the video, Kevin looked at me in all sincerity and said, "Maybe you should get the epidural." Thanks, Dear. I couldn't help but chuckle at the serious and concerned tone in his voice.
I will admit that I was a little shocked by what I saw in that video, thinking to myself, "Oh my gosh. That's going to be ME very soon. What did I get myself into?!" The fear and trepidation did well up within me at the moment. But then I took the opportunity to specify a few important things to Kevin.
(1) I will not be naked while giving birth. I think I'll be exposed enough, thank you. (For some reason in this video, a number of the women shown were naked! All I have to say is - WHY?).
(2) I do not want a mirror hanging above for a play-by-play of the process. I would likely faint at the sight. No, I'd rather be blissfully unaware of what I look like from that angle and just welcome the little guy when he finally pops out.
And (3) Kevin will kindly refrain from being up in my face as a method of helping me "focus" during hard contractions. After watching some husbands do this in the video, they then explained in subsequent interviews that that they found the "in-your-face method" very helpful for motivating their wives through the pain. Um, they didn't ask the wives what they thought about that method... but if they asked this one she'd say, Heck no! You might regret getting so close if I'm having a "hard contraction."
So on the note of anticipating labor and delivery, I had my weekly appointment yesterday, and we received some relatively good news! I am now 50% effaced and 1/2 cm dilated! It's small, but it's progress! In addition, I've been keeping track of how many braxton-hicks I have each day because they are coming more frequently and feeling a bit stronger.
Here we go!